Spent a bit more time on this, and it seems that for security Apple has made it so that the prior method of finding a library doesn't work. It does work if it is hardcoded into the binary.
Here's what made it work for me, but it's a bit of a kludge:
install_name_tool -add_rpath /usr/local/lib mygobinary
It also worked to change the library to use @executable_path vs @rpath. I think this rpath is hardcoded in the libTuroactivate.dylib? If so, a rebuild of that might fix this.