We provide tools for developers to make that apps better. This includes updating software (wyUpdate and the AutomaticUpdater), licensing software (LimeLM & TurboActivate), and a bunch of open source "control" components.
A) You shall force software that use your technology that makes it clear in their ToS that additional software (wyUpdate&co) is sneakily added with the installation of the software!
We can't do that. wyUpdate and the AutomaticUpdater are open source. Have you tried talking to the company that is using wyUpdate? What did they say when you asked for greater control over the update process?
B) How can I disable wyUpdate to automatically trigger when I close my software (the new software contains features I do not want, so I want to stay in a previous version intentionally, no matter what it means) ?
Ask the company that's using wyUpdate to give you an option to disable updates.
C) Could you provide some sort of console that runs on my computer and show swhich software are managed by wyupdate and offer options for managing the way how the update works ?
We plan to make something like that. It's not out yet, and when it is out it will be up to the companies using wyUpdate to include it with their app. Again, ask the company that's using wyUpdate to give you an option to disable updates.
D) what configuration shall I setup to block anysort of wyUpdate inbound outbound from W7 firewall ?
The same way you block any application in windows firewall.